BFF

So I have been racking my brain trying to figure out what to write about. I forgot to mention that my last post was my 50th, I am well on my way to being a super blogger. YAAAAY! Any back to the subject at hand. I decided that there is no better topic to address than bestfriends.

What makes a bestfriend? I really had to think about this subject. As I honestly have the most amazing bestfriend in the world. So I had to say what makes her that person to me. Well, after much introspection I realized that a bestfriend is that person that you can be most honest with and not fear that they are going to judge you. I can tell her anything that I have done good or bad and not feel judged. Now don't trip, she will check me when I am doing wrong, but it doesn't feel like judgement. She is so kind and understands that I am truly a sensitive soul that she will tell me about myself with sterness, but finesse at the same time. What more could you ask for? In terms of support, we are each others biggest non-blood cheerleaders. Her success is truly my success as mine is truly hers. We have no debt to each other, if one has then the other is covered, whether it is a house, car, money or whatever we truly have each others back. She is the woman that I would give my children to (if I ever have any LOL) should something happen to me, because I know that she will love them, care for them, and raise them exactly the way that I would want them to be raised.

It is funny to think that we have only known each other for 10 years and it seems like I have known her my entire life. We are getting to the point of having telepathy. "Girl, what's up? I had this feeling that I needed to call you right now." Even though we talk to each other almost everyday. :-) She is the sister I never had and I am glad because I don't think that sisters can be as close to each other as we are. In hard times and in victories she is just amazing and I only hope that I reciprocate the love and enthusiasm that she gives to me.

I hope that all people can have a friend like this in life.

I was watching Grey's Anatomy recently and Meredith the main character died for sometime and her bestfriend Christina was so at a loss she just ran in there and told her she was not allowed to die. So after I sobbed my eyes out I called my bestfriend and told her she better not die on me. I really thought about that episode and realized that I would be devastated if something ever happened to her. I would need some serious intensive therapy. I may not be able to function. That in my opinion is how you know that that person is your bestfriend. They are your right hand and so important to you that you may not be able to function without them. So she is my bestfriend.

Dani love, thank you for everything. You truly are my bestfriend.