Break My Heart Again, and I'll Kill You!!
Now I know many of you out there are thinking that I have gone off of the deep end. Which may or may not be true, however I think it is time that we talk about heart break on a real and honest level. It sucks!!!
Most will agree that heartbreak on any level is not pleasant, but there is really a hierarchy of heartbreak. From acceptable heart break like, the Eagles losing in the playoffs, to unacceptable heartbreak, like your spouse of 20 years decides to cheat on you with the younger, uglier, hairier French nanny.
Heartbreak can take on these many forms and mean different things to different people. On the whole however, we work hard as human beings to get over the pain of heartbreak and the loss of someone or something that we put time and effort into.
Sometimes our heartbreak is self inflicted. For instance, we may do something like I know that I should be studying right now, but I am going to get an extra hour or two of sleep, or write for an hour or so in my blog. At this point if you get any other grade besides and "A" or do not pass the test, it is your fault. You are the reason for your heartbreak and you now need to suck it up and deal with it. Your bad. Minus 10 points on you.
Other times heartbreak is inflicted by others, this in my opinion can be the most painful type of heartbreak ever. Example, you are not the love of my life, my ex-girlfriend who is psycho and cheated on me with both my brother and my bestfriend on the night I was going to ask her to marry me is, I'm sorry. Really it's not you, it's me. Oh an yes, she was the one you caught me sleeping with on that show Cheaters. OUCH! Now that is low. Honestly, I am not sure how people survive that one.
Then there is the inadvertant heartbreak that can either be self-inflicted or inflicted by others. Example; I have known you for 8 years, dated you for 6 and been married to you for 10 and I just don't know who you are, we have drifted apart.
I mean even Cupid struggled with heartbreak when he was married to psyche. Hmmm? Anyway, it just goes to show that no one is immune to the pain caused by heartbreak.
So I pose these questions. Why do we keep trying? Why do we keep setting ourselves up for this? Why don't we just call it a day, harden the old heart and go on our merry way?
Seriously, I wanna know, because I am all about the hardened heart.
Curiously,
Ms. Denva
3 comments:
I think it was the Wizard from "The Wizard of Oz" who said something like, "To make rational decisions requires removing the heart."
I keep getting back up and doing it all over again because nothing replaces the tingles of electricity that run through you when he's walking toward you, or he fixes his gaze on you and you swear your eyebrows are on fire.
When you're both able to enjoy solitude together w/o feeling obligated to speaking, and when you know that just for this moment there's someone who understands you.
I'm a fool for love. I'm just not going to be a fool in love:-)
Did you say, "I'll kill you"? Wow, all them days in Compton worked wonders didn't they!
Debo,
I can understand the hopeless romantic. I am one at times, but now a days boy sheesh. I don't even worry. I swear they made the move happily never after about me. LOL
Paz,
Dr. Dre told that when you are straight out of Compton you are a loose cannon. It is wild wild west for real son. LOL. I just figured that title and the really cool picture I found might catch the eye a bit. :-)
Ms. Denva
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