So friends I am really beginning to wonder is it all worth it. Relationships I mean. I have been in a few and from my experience, it sucks. People fall in like, they call, they talk, they get to know each other, the disagree, they fight, they make up. Then they fall in love and do all the same crap, but in my case they either break up or disappear. What is up with that? I have friends who are going through the same thing and I just can't figure out what the deal is. Now granted it may be me. I am very driven and busy, but I try to make time for that person, to talk to them, to be there for them, to spend time with them, all while working and going to school full time. So, yes I am a little busy but there is always time for cake. :-) I dunno, I think I have just been soured on the whole relationships, dating, marriage thing all together. I mean why keep putting yourself out there only to keep getting tropped on like a grape in a winery? Let me know.
Can do bad by myself,
Ms. Denva
Can do bad by myself,
Ms. Denva
2 comments:
Who said that there is something wrong with going at it solo? Instead of thinking, "I can do bad by myself" why not think, "I do GOOD by myself, but it's nice to have someone to make things better!" It may seem like it's all about the symantics, but really, the person you end up with should be enhancing you already enjoyable life, not a drag on it.
Paz,
Always the consummate big brother. True, true and more true. I am should look at it from that perspective. I do great by myself, and I suppose I do look at it that way a little bit. I am just saying that it seems that when I do the relationship thing it turns out all bad and I can do that by myself. I certainly don't need any help in that area. So the question for me becomes, what is the point of the whole relationship thing if I can do it by myself?
Another bus conversation :-),
Ms. Denva
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