Monday, February 19, 2007

(Words of Wisdom By Melinda Byers)

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Life Lessons


So recently I have been going through a lot of life changes and I have been forced to make some very difficult decisions a few of which I am regretting, but those are mainly work related.

I have learned a lot in this process. I learned that even when you are helping other people and it seems obvious to you that you deserving of reward, humans will not give you what you deserve.

I learned that children lie often and it really taints your view of them even if you love them to pieces.

I learned that it is important to parent at all times as children lie all the time and your view is tainted.

I learned that no matter how much you give, especially to family it is never enough and never right.

I learned that even though I am right a vast majority of the time, people just plain don't listen to me.

I also learned that if I am ever going to succeed in life, I have to take everything into my own hands and stop working for other people.

I learned that it is important to purge yourself of toxic relationships as soon as you see them so that you are stuck in heartbreak or become the, "In Between Girl."

I also learned that I really want to get a piece of that NFL money. I am working on that.

I also learned that I am at this juncture in my life, because God is getting ready to move and do great things within me and through me and that I am only being tested because I am blessed. This is God putting me through the fire after he had beaten and molded me into the fine piece of China that I know I will be when all is said and done. I can feel it now, so I am holding strong to my faith which is the best lesson I have learned so far.


So I wish you all lessons like mine so that we can all come out in the end fine as China.

Too Blessed to be Stressed,
Ms. Denva